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\nAbout Your Family and Community. Robert B. Taylor. MEDICAL WISDOM AND DOCTORING. The Art of 21st Century Practice. Springer, 2010.p235-248<\/p>\n
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The chapter began:
\nYour family can cause you more sadness than all the no-show, heart sink, and difficult patients you will encounter in lifetime. But there are two sides to the coin. Your family can also bring more joy than making a brilliant diagnosis, having a paper published in your favorite medical journal, or receiving a national award.\u30fb\u30fb\u30fbI will submit the thesis that this world is full of people and opportunities. Wise physicians pay keen attention to these factors of their life. Often-neglected life areas include full participation in marriage, family and community.<\/p>\n
\u30fbBe a good life partner<\/p>\n
\u30fburture your closest relationships
\n\u3000If there is one key success in life partnerships, it is the process of nurturing the relationship. This means finding ways to communicate effectively, cultivating common interests, and -most of all- spending time together.
\n\u3000\u30fb\u30fb\u30fbbut the physician faces some formidable challenges in the quest for a successful intimate relationships\u00a0
\n\u3000\u3000*prolonged work hours, leading to fatigue, diminished family time
\n\u3000\u3000*smoldering hints of personal burnout, the result of heavy clinical obligations\u00a0
\n\u00a0 \u3000And so on\u30fb\u30fb\u30fb<\/p>\n
\u30fbTake good care of your family
\n\u3000\u30fb\u30fb\u30fbas you age, your family -especially your grandchildren – is your reward for being a good spouse an parent, and for taking good care of your family. Do what needs to be done now to earn this rewards later.<\/p>\n
\u30fbSeek the right balance between work and family<\/p>\n
\u30fbWhen home with family, be a person, not “the doctor” \u2606\u2606\u2606<\/p>\n
\u30fbEstablish early habits of finding family time
\n\u3000I suggest you that you put “family time” on your schedule. After all we physicians tend to be both compulsive and time-oriented. \u30fb\u30fb\u30fbTry not to be distracted by phone calls or your Blackberry.\u3000
\n\u30fbSpend time with your children
\n\u3000We physician can provide our families with more than our share of materials advantages, but gifts, tennis clubs, and private school tuition cannot substitute for spending time with them.<\/p>\n
\u30fbHelp your children learn to appreciate the value of hard work and independent thinking
\n\u3000\u30fb\u30fb\u30fbbook titled The adventures of Dr.Huckleberry\u30fb\u30fb\u30fbI tell you this book, because I believe that this rural doctor, writing of his life, provides good insight honest labor and innovation.<\/p>\n
\u30fbTeach your children to be charitable<\/p>\n
\u30fbConsider involving your family -spouse and children\u2010in your work
\n\u3000\u30fb\u30fb\u30fbI often needed to make a trip to the hospital to the hospital on Saturday or Sunday morning to see my patients. Sometimes I took daughters along\u30fb\u30fb\u30fbToday, almost four decades later, my daughter fondly recall those times with their dad.
\n\u3000In that small town practice, my wife worked in the office and children often helped with cleaning rooms and stocked supplies.\u00a0<\/p>\n
\u30fbYou will inevitably be involved in the case of your own family members<\/p>\n
\u30fbLive in the community where your patients live\u2606\u2606\u2606
\n\u3000\u30fb\u30fb\u30fbYet today, physicians and their patients often live in very different neighborhoods,\u30fb\u30fb\u30fb
\n\u3000Often, this separation is purposeful on the physicians part,\u30fb\u30fb\u30fb
\n\u3000I believe that physician’s life in richer and the quality of healthcare enhanced if doctor and\u00a0
\n\u3000patients in the same community.\u30fb\u30fb\u30fb<\/p>\n
\u30fbServe your community
\n\u3000\u30fb\u30fb\u30fbthe physician is one of the most educated person in town.\u30fb\u30fb\u30fbWith this educational endowment come obligations. \u30fb\u30fb\u30fb
\n\u3000While joining in activities with members of your community, it is perfectly Okay to have some of these persons as friends. Actually, I urge you to cultivate some friends outside of medicine, \u30fb\u30fb\u30fb
\n\u3000Getting to know a few of these people as friends can only enrich your life.\u00a0<\/p>\n
\u30fbWise words about your family and community
\n\u3000\u3000* Introduce 9 wise remarks about doctor’s family and community.
\n\u00a0 \u3000”When the family fails, there’s the community: when the community fails, there’s a family ”<\/p>\n
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